A Jon Post
Casa Ahavá’s first patient has left.
Zakarias arrived for the first time in April of last year. He spent 6 months in Casa Ahavá and then returned to his home in Beira. As many of you have read here and here, he came back in January and spent another month in Casa Ahavá with his wife and daughter.
After meeting with his oncologist, we received a final, though not unexpected, response from the oncology ward.
His cancer is untreatable.
Terminal.
Fatal.
So he went home.
We spent many of those days while he was here in January and February talking about how he could prepare his life for its end. We visited multiple government offices to arrange for his veteran’s pension and social security payments to continue to support his young wife and children.
And he went home.
A wonderful doctor in the hospital’s pain management unit prescribed some medicine that has helped him tremendously. His pain levels are much decreased and his sleep time is much more peaceful.
So grows his cancer.
So creeps towards its glory, the spirit of Papa Zakarias.
Upon arriving home, he promptly sent someone to find out information on Filomena. As we mentioned here, we have been unable to contact her.
A neighbor had the news.
She died. Two weeks ago.
Goodbye Sister
So arrived into glory the spirit of dear, sweet, Filomena.
When I heard the news all I could remember was the night I held her trembling body in my arms and willed oxygen into her fluid-filled lungs.
For this, Lord? For this? You saved her that night… for this?
Though I know the answers to the questions and the pain that flooded my heart, when I heard of Filomena’s death, those answers brought little comfort. They brought little relief from the weariness that threatened to overwhelm my spirit.
So entered glory, the spirit of Filomena.
Casa Ahavá; Home of a love that chose pain before ease. Home of a love that chooses flood waters before abandonment.
Now Casa Ahavá welcomes her next love. Now she offers her bed and arms to her next friend.
Dear Tia Anita was all packed and ready to come to Casa Ahavá on Friday, February 21st but paperwork and slow processes turned that into Tuesday afternoon, the 25th. Having spent the last 5 months away from her family and faced with the prospect of the next 2-3 with us, her stand-in family, we made the decision to send her to her home town for two weeks to see her daughters and grandchild before her next treatment. She will be back to stay with us next week on the 11th.
So now we pause. Now we try to breath. Now we remember the Sabbath that our Lord made holy, and we try to keep it holy.
I think God thought up camping/rock climbing for just such a time.
Thanks for praying for us, Zakarias, and for Filomena. It is known and it helps.
I will never forget Filomena’s warm hug. I ache for you and for her Beira family. Casa Ahava was privileged to be Filomena’s friend and home for a short time.
I will never forget Papa Z’s affection towards your little ones. I ache for him and his family and pray for them. Casa Ahava’s first patient was special in so many ways. I know you will miss him.
Praying for all of you.
I pray space, even a little bit, to breathe, to discover beauty on the climbing wall and beauty in the time spent with family and easement of the weight of bearing the mortal to the immortal.
God gives your family strength to care for sweet ones coming to your home of welcome arms but so sweet how your blessed also with words to send us, what humble words( pausing for breath) love,aunt joan
my prayer group prayed for Papa Zakarias this morning. . and so now we will pray for Tia Anita. .
and we thank the Lord for the glory that awaits us all. It was eight years ago that our family gathered to say goodbye to Barry – it is so hard to part with loved ones – but we know the goodbye is just for the now and not forever. Filomena and soon Papa Z. will be able to say hello to our Jesus – and maybe even find my Barry amidst the saints in heaven. I weep with you and too ask for just a moment to breathe and feel His peace that come with the joy that follows our sorrows.
Hi Jon & Layne from Gilbert, AZ
Continue to be amazed by the work you are doing and your big hearts. You are making such a difference in the lives you are touching! Craig & I believe in camping/rock climbing as good medicine for the body & soul. Always so good to experience “Mother Earth” and her glory breathing deep and feeling Her! Love and God’s peace to you both and your precious little girls.
I am sorry for the loss of your friends that your have loved and cared for so well. Praying that God will fill you with His peace and strength.
Paul