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Come Meet Eliza

A Layne Post

I knew Eliza a long time. She had a big personality, one you could not miss. She was full of faith and had a love for God’s word, despite the fact she was unable to read. All day long you could catch her singing songs to her Lord. She was a prayer. When she felt pain, her response was to cry out to God. One weekend Jon was quite sick and I remember her knocking on the door, walking into the living and passionately praying to the Lord for his healing.

She loved her family. She spoke with her mother and sister daily. Her daughter, son, and grandchildren were her pride and joy. It was difficult for her to spend so much time away from them. We were honored to have her come and stay with us, to become a Grandma around here.

She loved to cook and thought her cooking was some of the best in the country – no one else could get it quite right. She had all the tricks to the perfect this or that. She served people through her cooking – Jon and I as well.

When Jon traveled, she would come in to play with the girls, feed Jovie, and just sit with me. She helped teach Jovie to walk and patiently chatted with Anaya, even when Anaya would only speak of Katy Duck (her stuffed animal).

Eliza knew she didn’t have long. She was confident in her Savior, and last week she was redeemed, saved from this life with all its sorrows and pain, and she is living in freedom with Him.

We interviewed Eliza and asked a few questions about her family and her sickness. This was to send to her family on a DVD so that they could see her talking about them and about her life while she still had strength and life. She gave us permission to share it here as well. We hope you have the time to honor her and remember her by watching this video.

A Thrill of Hope

a thrill of hope

Thanks Tara Craver for sharing

We are home. The trip was long and our girls are still not recovered – struggling with night and morning coughs and jet lag. I keep asking Jon to reassure me that it will get better… and it will, though it seems like it is dragging. I caught the bug before leaving the States and was determined to get home and get our house ready for Christmas. So before all of our bags were unpacked and laundry was done the tree, garland, and lights went up. This year I am enjoying a little Advent calendar with the girls, and while they may not understand it all, perhaps little bits and pieces will stick.

On Thanksgiving day we received a heavy email with a health update from our dear Eliza. She left for South Africa to start radiation the day we went on furlough to the States. The treatment has not gone well. Her throat has swollen and she is unable to eat food. She has stopped talking and can only use gestures to communicate. Her brother came by our home a couple of days ago to ask for help to get her home. We are so very blessed by our supporters in that the financial side of that is not a problem – Thank you! What we need from you is prayer. Pray that Eliza, who is currently on breathing tubes, will improve and stabilize enough to get on an airplane and make it back to Mozambique, her home country, where  she can be around family and those that love her.

Yesterday we were able to make our first visit back to Oncology! We wanted to arrive as a family and introduce ourselves to all the new patients. Our girls are such a blessing there. It was fun to watch our Karasi being toted around, chill as could be. Anaya is becoming more and more comfortable, and we are able to talk with her more about our “job” there. It is sweet when she suggests that we pray for people. We saw two patients that we knew and the rest were all new! Pray with us as we develop new relationships and ask the Lord to guide us in the selection of 4 new patients for Casa Ahavá.

This holiday season, surrounded and so very aware of this weary world, we feel the thrill of hope, and we rejoice! Christ our Savior has come.

Snapshots

A Jon Post

Following are a few snapshots of our lives over the last 2 months from a family that did a pretty poor job of communicating with all of you about where we are/what we’re doing. If you don’t have time to read it all please just skip to the end where I list a couple prayer requests.

#1 Week of September 22-28
A mad scramble to figure out if we would be able to get 2 our patients home, to the hospital, or to life-extending treatment in South Africa before we left. A mad scramble to find out if one of our patient’s tumor was operable or he needed to go home, and a bus ticket to send another one home who had finished her treatment and needed to spend her remaining days/months with her family.

Family minus Filomena

Family minus Filomena

Zakarias, the surgeon didn’t respond before we left, we did not know if his tumor was operable, he stayed in our house.
Tomás and Eliza, the day we left for the USA (September 24th) we were up first thing in the morning to buy last minute bus tickets to send them to South Africa for more treatment.

Filomena The Day She Left

Filomena The Day She Left

Filomena, we purchased a bus ticket and sent her home a few days before we left for the USA to make sure she was with her family after she was discharged with no more options to fight her cancer.
September 24th, we left our house at 11 AM and arrived at Layne’s parents house 40 hours later with all three girls in tow. Thankfully we had the gracious help of Jon’s parents who came to visit us and joined us in our long journey to the USA and helped tremendously on the plane.

(whew, that was a long first snapshot but we did a really bad job of telling everyone who reads this blog that any of that stuff happened before we left)

Jovie Meeting the Dolphins

Jovie Meeting the Dolphins

Anaya Running with Dolphins

Anaya Running with Dolphins

#2 Time in Corpus Christi, TX
The Texas State Aquarium with our girls. Grandparents helping them swim and play, as well as cousin time. Sitting with sweet, sweet supporters. Trying to recover from the jetlag and help our girls sleep in new places with new surroundings.

#3 October 30th More Travel
Flight from Corpus Christ to Phoenix. Left Layne’s parents place at 8 and arrived at Jon’s brother’s house 7 hours later. This was our first plane travel with our three girls alone. They are super stars.

Layne and Her Dad

Layne and Her Dad

#4 More Family Adjustments
Man… it’s hard doing this furlough thing with 3 little children. We could not ask them to be better sports through all of this but a new bedroom for a month, a new bed for a month, different living space for a month, meeting lots of people (supporters) for the first time on an almost daily basis. Well… it’s tough. Our girls are super stars.

#5 Time in Chandler, AZ

At Uncle Joe's Duck Pond

At Uncle Joe’s Duck Pond

Seeing more sweet, sweet supporters. Time with other Grandparents. Time with LOTS of cousins, girls napping in the car a lot.
So there are a few, far from comprehensive or descriptive, snapshots of our lives since September. We are currently in Chandler, Arizona in the USA trying to connect with those who pray for us and give to this ministry. We have been trying to sit down with each of you and we still have a little under two weeks to do that. We are very sorry that we haven’t pursued you and communicated with you all well enough to do that “sit down” better. We are finding out that we need to be more diligent with some things and one is our personal and purposeful communication with team mates.

They See Us Strollin...

They See Us Strollin…

Anaya Loves Karasi

Anaya Loves Karasi

In closing this little “snapshot” post. Can we ask you to pray for two things?
Would you pray that our children’s health improves? I don’t know if it’s because they don’t have American immunities built up or if it’s just a bug they would have picked up either way but all three, Anaya, Jovie, and Karasi have bad coughs and are very congested. It’s hard for them to rest and, thus, hard for their parents, especially Layne who still feeds and comforts Karasi in the night. Would you pray for them?
Would you also pray that each airplane on our return flight has LOTS of open seats? Neither Jovie nor Karasi are ticketed for those flights and are traveling as lap children. Anaya still needs plenty of help and attention on the flights and Jovie needs space to move so if we all try to jam into three seats it’s just really hard. Would you pray for our flights? Would you pray that a check-in agent magically upgrades us to first class? Would you pray that we have 15 seats to spread out on and rest on for the 40 hours of travel?

Karasi Loves Jovie

Karasi Loves Jovie

We love you guys. Thanks for loving us, even though we lost touch there for a bit.

Guest Blog from Dan Heller: Names That Have Faces

A Jon Post

It’s been a busy couple weeks. My parents arrived in Maputo on September 15th, ready to spend some time with our family and see our ministry. They spent our final 1 and a half weeks with us in Maputo before our two month furlough. They got to see us running around, trying to tie up all loose ends, getting our home, Casa Ahavá, ready for two months without us. Patients to and from the hospital, to and from administration records buildings, and seemingly endless errands all led up to leaving our home on Tuesday the 17th and arriving, 40 hours later, in Layne’s parents home. It was exhausting.

So my dad reflected on his trip with my mom and he/they wrote this guest blog this week. They/we hope you enjoy.

A Dan Post

Names That Have Faces

Have you ever had the experience of meeting someone and thought, “finally a face with a name”.  Maybe a relative or a friend of a friend or just someone you have heard about. Vicki and I, after visiting Jon and Layne, met their first patients. Papa Zakarias, Eliza, Filomena, and Tomás are not just names anymore but faces; real people that were not just names but became “friends”.

We would like to offer a picture through our camera lens of who they are, so you might know their faces:

 

Papa Zakarias

Papa Zakarias

(Papa Zakarias) A 53-year-old diminutive man sits in comfortable solitude in a plastic chair.  The sun’s intense rays cannot

reach him here in the shade of Casa Ahavá, where Papa Zakarias lives with his fellow patients.  We often see him in this pose, playing his made-up chords on Jon’s guitar, of which Zakarias has become the unofficial keeper.  We want very much to come close enough to hear as he softly sings the words he has written to his wife and young children, the loved ones he has not seen these many months of cancer treatments; but we dare not disturb his privacy, and besides … the language barrier would prevent our understanding of the words.  But there are other glimpses into his tender father-heart:  the way he looks after the other Casa Ahavá patients; his smiling eyes blessing Jon’s and Layne’s little ones; the longing in his voice – “Ahhh, ….. Jovie …” – embracing the name of Jon’s one-year-old daughter as he cradles the top of her head in a good-bye gesture, knowing it is possibly the last time he will see these children as well.   Papa Zakarias is easy to love.  And we do – hoping, praying for the good news that he has been deemed a candidate for potentially life-saving surgery to remove the hateful tumor that has banished him to a place so far from home.

 

Auntie Eliza

Auntie Eliza

(Eliza) We love her Mozambican style:  the artfully arranged head turban covering her chemo-bald head, the beautiful wrap-around capulana skirt, the fringed shawl.  Eliza’s communication and facial expressions vary from day to day, depending on the level of pain or discomfort she is experiencing.  It is a relief to see that she freely trusts Layne with her needs and her pain.  We have been in Jon’s and Layne’s home for several days before we see an easy smile on her countenance.  We are happy that she, a grandmother herself, has been here at Casa Ahavá for all these months, hugging and cheering our precious grandchildren in our stead.  Who, we wonder, is loving on Eliza’s grandchildren for her?   Occasionally, and comically, we try to communicate with words, hoping that our body language will come through for us; it often doesn’t and we find ourselves looking to Jon or Layne for interpretation.  It is not until the day before Jon and Layne will leave for their 2-month-long furlough, that we see the full expression of Eliza’s love and gratitude toward them.  We do not understand her words, but her tears say it all.  Again, we pray and hope for this one:  God have mercy; help Eliza learn to know You in “the power of an endless life” (Heb. 7:16).

Filomena and Vicki

Filomena and Vicki

(Filomena) Quiet.  Fragile.  Recently bereaved of her 16-year-old son.  These words pass through our minds as we think of the short time we knew Filomena before she left 10 days ago to return to her village in the north.  Her fellow patients firmly believe that being at Casa Ahavá saved her life – at least for a little while longer.  On the day of her home-going, she is happy, excited to be returning to her two young children.  In spite of her shyness, she seeks Vicki out for a hug and poses for a picture with her.  Somehow, the photo reminds us that, just as He sees the sparrow when it falls, God sees her.  That He knows her name and her story.  That even though we will never see her again, she leaves her mark.  For reasons beyond our understanding, God chose Filomena to live at Casa Ahavá for a few months, to love and be loved there.  And it was good.

Tomas

Tomas

(Tomás) One would never guess from looking at Tomás that he is sick.  Strong and handsome with an easy smile, he says little, but he knows.  For one of our dinners with the patients, he proudly prepares, in Casa Ahavá’s little kitchen, a delicious Mozambican dish of cooked greens.  He enjoys an occasional game of Jenga or checkers with me, Jon, and Papa Zakarias.  We wonder what he is thinking on Tuesday morning, when he and Eliza board a bus for a two-month sojourn in South Africa for radiation treatment.  Will he see his Casa Ahavá friends again?

Casa Ahavá is Real – A House of Deep Love because of your generosity and prayers.

A place that provides comfort to the sick and dying; a place that forgets cancer; a place that is filled with music; a place where games are played; a place where the women hold little Karasi and remember their own children or grandchildren; a place where life abounds even with the protector and guardian of the house – Gasher the dog! A place of sharing meals together, trying to understand different languages (Vicki and I); a place of realizing that our hope in God is the anchor of our soul and the only answer to life’s challenges; a place of gratitude, listening to the patients express with tears how thankful they are for Jon and Layne and all they do, one in particular saying she would have died earlier if it had not been for them. This is what our prayers and generous giving are supporting.

We walked away knowing that Life is being discovered in the Face of Death.

Come Meet Tomás

A Jon Post

We’re getting ready to come back to the USA for 2 months but we want you to have the opportunity to meet our patients and friends. We spoke with Tomás and he gave his blessing and permission to share this video with you.

Please take a few minutes and get to know this incredible man, loved and known by Jesus, fighting for his life and to see his children again.

Someone made me aware that if anyone is reading this on an apple iDevice, they can’t watch the youtube clip embedded above. I think it helps if I include the link to the video straight on youtube then (I don’t own an iPad, iPhone, iPod or iAnythingElse so I’m not sure). If it helps, here’s the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DIK-WR-eLk8

Thanks!