A Jon Post
I spent the afternoon with a little boy in my lap, talking, laughing, holding… while poison dripped into his veins. He started day 1 of 5 of chemotherapy today. Little Tomé and his brave little smile.
Every time I come to the hospital Tomé comes running. He’s 10 years old and has lived at the hospital for 6 months now.
Alone.
His father dropped him off at the hospital 6 months ago with incredible pain in his stomach. He later had a cancerous tumor removed from his abdomen and has been doing 5 day chemo treatments on three week intervals ever since.
Alone.
He hasn’t seen his father or mother the entire time.
This post was actually supposed to be about the riots and civil unrest in the city of Maputo over the past week. Layne and I ended up stuck in our house while we waited for the violence that swept through the city to calm down. We weren’t able to go visit our friends at the hospital or even see if they were okay there. The hospital is right in the middle of city and was surrounded by rioters.
I was going to go on and on about the country of Mozambique and what would incite people to burn cars in the streets and bring the city to a stand-still.
But today I spent the afternoon with a little boy in my lap. A little boy usually a bundle of energy and looking for someone to hold him, someone to whom he can belong, someone to call him… mine. Usually Layne and I are called “Tio Jon and Tia Elayna”. Uncle Jon and Aunt Layne. But today, while little Tomé sat in my lap, a woman walked by, saw us, smiled and said “Tomé has been asking for his daddy. I’m glad you came. Tomé has been asking for you.”
I don’t think I’ve earned such a reverent title in Tomé’s life. I think he’s just desperate for someone to whom he can belong. And I’m glad he feels safe enough with me for that to be true of Layne and me.
This is the vision. This is it. We just want to do it in our own home. We want to look after the orphan in his distress. We want to visit the sick. We see Jesus there. Sitting in a hospital bed, arm swollen from countless IV chemo treatments, a piece of gauze taped over a painful sore, with a broad smile on His face.
Thanks friends and family and supporters. Tomé has a family because you keep us here. His broad smile is worth our time.
Thanks.
God gives us what we need!love Aunt Joan
I love this story… ahh, it made me cry! So grateful that the Lord has put you in this boy’s life. That is real love.
What an adventure, what a life, what a challenge, what expectations, what joy, what hope, and most of all what a blessing you are both to all He those he blesses you with~
Thank for for this story. For sharing a snapshot of this boy. I’ve always liked this quote, “you’re never fully dressed without a smile.”
Oh Lord Jesus, Thank you for allowing Jon to be You for this precious one of Your’s :)
Please, please tell little Tome’ that his Nana is praying for him and that she loves him very much. Nana is proud of such a brave little boy and wishes she could be there to hold him and love him too. He is very special to me.
this makes me think of how much people need each other. im sitting here baffled at our american isolation.
this is my greatest struggle. breaking down the walls that are between me and the person next to me.
Yes we indeed thank the Lord that the two of you can be family to so many people/orphans. Love you guys. Lots of blessings
I truly believe being a “Dad” has very little to do with “earning” it. Instead, a true “Dad” is a man who God entrusts with the enormous responsibility of fathering His children, here on Earth, who would otherwise remain abandoned. “A father of the fatherless… is God in his holy habitation. God setteth the solitary in families..” Psalm 68:5a,6a. It appears Tome’ has been placed, quite purposefully, into your family. :)
Jesus is blessing little Tome through you Jon. What a privlege to serve Him this way. God bless.
Ok jon and Layne… SO, I know you want people to READ your posts. BUT I CAN’T because of these silly tears that keep streaming down my face!!!!!!! For MANY reasons. i remember sitting in the house in Bots and you guys and jon on other occassions sharing with us your heart of what you wanted to do and knew God was calling you to. There was never a doubt in my mind you two would do it. I havent finished this post 100% yet cuz I know exactly what its gonna say!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE DOING IT! You are all in God’s perfect will for your lives right now. Its all a big journey and you guys are just starting to see God hand at work with everything. I am so beyond excited for you two and so beyond excited for all those lives you are touching and caring for… you have MANY children and more family members than you probably know. Tell Tome’ that there are people in the states that love him as family too. I love you guys so much and so honored to call you our friends. I look forward to your posts every week. love you guys. Keep up the amazing work. Sooo… happy.
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