A Jon Post
For the second time in as many days I’ve held trembling hands in mine and given the news that all is not well.
Fingernails scratched against the concrete walls of cancer while her tears stained her face and I sat with an x-ray in my hand.
X-rays, ultrasounds, CT scans and scribbled doctors notes on paper all telling us that pain will only increase and rest will only flee frail bodies.
There I sat with an x-ray in one hand and her trembling hand in the other.
Last night a different hand but equally as precious lay limp in mine as I repeated the CT scan results about a 6 centimeter tumor eating at liver tissue and causing the growing pain in her abdomen. A cancer that grew with a placenta and a new life inside a swollen mothers belly took the life of that baby months ago and now gnaws at the mother’s liver splashing malignant cells around her body like dirty grey paint.
And her limp hand sat in mine while I pleaded internally with a silent God to give words where mine failed.
I heard none.
An ironic smile appeared on this orphaned-of-her-child mother’s face and she acknowledged the inability in our lungs and vocal cords to blow or shout against this cold wind that cannot be warded off with blankets and grows equally difficult to guard against with chemotherapeutic treatments.
Prayers fell in Portuguese like wounded sparrows from my lips and fell, splat, splat, splat, on this chipped tile floor in front of the bed we sat on.
This silent God once promised He cares for those sparrows and that not one of them falls to the ground unless He knows about it.
Maybe he caught the ones that fell last night but didn’t tell me.
The dark glass that we see through seemed especially dark last night as I hurled my prayers against it and succeeded in shattering only the glass yet not the darkness.
My wife picked up the pieces of this broken window of prayer and held them tight while finishing the plea to a Savior who weeps. I watched in silence marveling that, though so little light pierced through the hole where the glass once hung, how brightly shone that broken glass in the hands of a broken person.
We waited for I do not know what, sat and looked into frightened eyes, then put our children to sleep.
My daughter at bedtime thanked God for flowers and butterflies and in the same breath asked God to help the owner of those trembling hands to rest well. More shattered glass cut its way down my cheeks and I wondered if the faith of a child could be so much more than mine.
I live next to death like he could come over and ask me to borrow an egg or some flour or the soul of a sick friend, and yet each time he closes the gap between us only seems to make me more weary of his presence instead of accustomed to it.
I’ve never looked him in the eye myself but I’ve seen his reflection shining in the wet eyes of too many of my friends here.
And now his reflection looks back at me from two more sets of eyes.
Oh, Silent God.
Speak now.